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Post by bringerofchaos on Jan 31, 2008 22:06:52 GMT
Hi there, after a lot of thinking, i am considering suicide. This is a long and serious post. I think life is a prison and death is freedom.
Props of Life
You get to enjoy You can be happy You can do lots of wonderful things You make love and friends You can enjoy it to its extent
Cons of Life
Its painful Its tiring Its annoying and sad It takes effort
Pros of Death
Its an easy way out of suffering It could bring heaven/hell It may be something else
Cons of Death
I may miss out on life It may have nothing
Now, if it doesn't have anything then i would like that as it means, nothing, literally, nothing, that feeling, of nothingness... is wonderful... no pain, no thought, no suffering, not a care in the world but i have so much to live for... what to do? There are so many things yet to do The chances of me actually committing suicide are 5%
In the last week or two things have gotten worse,
1) The girl i love doesn't love me... ( ya i know what your thinking ) 2) Liverpool have done really bad 3) Schools fantasy league has gone unlucky and annoyed me 4) Questioning the meaning of life 5) The hard tasks ahead of me 6) Many more
I thought you lot may want to know this as i think its quiet a serious moment in my life, i have always lived by one motto, live life as much as you can.
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Post by Pythagean on Jan 31, 2008 22:27:39 GMT
ummm, I am not really sure what to post here, but I will put something my health teacher told me.
Suicide is the most selfish decision a person can make in his/her life. It has no effect on you apart from you dying, in which case you don't have to deal with anything else. While all your family and friends will be constantly asking themselves why you did it. They will be forever wondering if it was them that forced you to do this. Their lives will never be the same again without you in it.
There was more, but I can't remember what it was.
I just thought you should know, I know someone who committed suicide, I wasn't very close to them, but I knew them quite well, their death changed me forever, it made me realize that none of us are safe, it made me realize that suicide can never be around me, but the truth is, it happens everywhere.
Well, thats all have to say
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Post by bringerofchaos on Jan 31, 2008 22:30:58 GMT
selfish act, it isint if they close people know that i wanted to die, how do you answer that, or anyone? that has given me stuff to think off...
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Post by Pythagean on Jan 31, 2008 22:34:52 GMT
Well its your decision, but in my eyes it will always be a selfish act. Just think about, if you knew your best friend wanted to die and he committed suicide, does that mean you would not feel pain or loss, would you not grieve over your friends, I sure would, no matter if I knew he wanted to die or not.
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Post by Jadmoroth on Jan 31, 2008 22:39:44 GMT
1) You'll get over it. People generally do, it's not the end of the world 2) It's just a sport. You should support West Ham anyway 3) nothing stays unluckey forever, think up new strategies perhaps 4)Everyone does this. It's part of what makes us human. I've written pages of scribblings trying to work it all out. I just came up with a new one about doubt. 5) The hardest tasks are generally the most rewarding Don't commit suicide. As someone who's life isn't all that great right now ( I'm talking about me as well) Chronic fatigue syndrome : Its painful Its tiring Its annoying and sad It takes effort just to stand up however I've decided that i still have things to do. Setting yourself some goals helps It's also worth pointing out that "live life as much as you can" sort of contradicts the whole suicide thing
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Post by bringerofchaos on Jan 31, 2008 22:54:19 GMT
i know, but it seems so easy... no worries afterwards, i can see why they call it a selfish act but it tis my life and i should be able to deal with it...
i dont think i can get over her
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Post by Pythagean on Jan 31, 2008 23:00:20 GMT
I know it seems like the easy option, but you really shouldn't give in to it.
Lost love is something everyone has to deal with in their lives, people deal with it in different ways, short message here, forget about her, I did. (well obviously not the same girl you are talking about, but you get what I mean)
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Post by Jadmoroth on Jan 31, 2008 23:00:54 GMT
it's like that for everyone. Trust me...
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Post by Pythagean on Jan 31, 2008 23:04:06 GMT
Yes, trust Jay, he is an emo, he has thought about suicide many times
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Post by Warlord of Morgul on Feb 1, 2008 0:01:21 GMT
Look at us, a bunch of kiwis trying to persuade a guy not to commit suicide. I'm almost crying as i type this. Go on then laugh, ill just hit you with i pillow, a STONE pillow.
I'm so d**n pissed that you could even THINK of suicide as a way out.
Of course it's d**n selfish, you leave to heaven or hell or wherever leaving behind a grieving family and unanswered questions.
Have you talked to your family about this?
The easy way out, pah! Don't give me that crap. Sometimes you have to choose between what is easy and what is right.
I've been through the long-lost love thing, and you will get over it.
Liverpool. You are kidding right. I mean you can't let a sport team be a factor of committing suicide. I was really down when the All Blacks lots to FRANCE in the Rugby World Cup QUARTER FINALS. But hey in 2011 it's in New Zealand! HORAY! It's just something to look forward to and when you win something after losing it so many times it makes victory all the sweeter.
And like Jadmoroth said nothing stays unlucky forever.
When you question the meaning of life you often find that the answer is that you CAN do some good and that things usually turn out all the better.
Many hard tasks ahead, so what? Everyone has a tough time ahead at some point so just go along for the ride and make it fun.
So you just have to remember that there is some good in this world and it's worth fighting for! Oh great now New Line's gonna come knocking on my door and ask for their line back.........
I REALLY hope this helps
Cheers
Sam
P.S: I'm sorry for bad language I'm just soooooooooooo angry!
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Post by Pythagean on Feb 1, 2008 1:20:04 GMT
I think WoM pretty much summed up what I think, I have questioned the meaning of life many times, I have sat there for hours trying to figure it out, and each time, I get one answer.....42 lol
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Post by bringerofchaos on Feb 1, 2008 7:48:42 GMT
i think i will commit it when once i have lived a good life...
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Post by Warlord of Morgul on Feb 1, 2008 18:59:26 GMT
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Post by Pythagean on Feb 1, 2008 19:25:41 GMT
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Post by jin on Feb 2, 2008 18:53:39 GMT
well if you are considerin suicide heres a few things:
you are attention seeking, you are posting this on a forum if you gna do it then jsut do it and stop whining about life, if ya cant deal with it then to me you aint worth it, you got alot more then other people do in aferica and porer countries so be graitfull that you got that much.
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